Has your daughter ever wanted to try something but hesitated because she thought the activity was only for boys? One little girl felt this way and was shy about trying to skateboard. Determined to show her daughter that girls can do anything they want to do, Jeanean Thomas of Ontario, Canada took her daughter to a skate park. When they arrived, the park was filled with teenage boys.
What happened next will warm your heart. Thomas didn’t know the boy’s name and decided the best way to reach him would be to take to social media and write him an open letter.
“Dear teenage boy at the skate park.”
You’re probably about 15 years old, so I don’t expect you to be very mature or for you to want a little girl on your skate ramp for that matter.
What you don’t know is that my daughter has been wanting to skateboard for months. I actually had to convince her that skateboarding wasn’t just for boys. So when we walked up to the skate park and saw that it was full of teenaged boys who were smoking and swearing, she immediately wanted to turn around and go home.
I secretly wanted to go too because I didn’t want to have to put on my mom voice and exchange words with you. I also didn’t want my daughter to feel like she had to be scared of anyone, or that she wasn’t entitled to that skate park just as much as you were.
So when she said, “Mom it’s full of older boys,” I calmly said, “So what, they don’t own the skate park.”
She proceeded to go down the ramp in spite of you and your friends flying past her and grinding rails beside her. She only had two or three runs in before you approached her and said “Hey, excuse me …”
I immediately prepared to deliver my “She’s allowed to use this park just as much as you guys” speech when I heard you say, “Your feet are wrong. Can I help you?”
You proceeded to spend almost an hour with my daughter showing her how to balance and steer, and she listened to you – a feat not attained by most adults.
You held her hand and helped her get up when she fell down and I even heard you tell her to stay away from the rails so that she wouldn’t get hurt.
I want you to know that I am proud that you are part of my community, and I want to thank you for being kind to my daughter, even though your friends made fun of you for it.
She left the skate park with a sense of pride and with the confidence that she can do anything, because of you.
As moms, we should encourage sons and nephews to lead by example like this young man did. He ignored the negative comments from his friends and showed this little girl compassion and that she could do anything. Girls need encouragement not only from adults but from boys too. Confidence starts at an early age and this inspirational story will help girls know they can do anything.